Women & Laughter: Of Course, Kamala Harris Has to Tone It Down

 "The case against laughing is that it makes a leader come off as less serious." - The New York Times, July 28, 2024

In society, women are usually assigned to be the keepers of values such as family and tradition. That's no laughing matter. And aside from those females who make it big as professional comics such as Tina Fey enjoying a good laugh a bit too much can come across as weird. Sure, smile. But, edit down the depth and volume of the laugh. Otherwise, women open themselves to censure. 

One wonders why those advising Kamala Harris on presentation of self haven't already zeroed in on that stylistic - her hearty laugh. If there is a debate - which Donald Trump might be reluctant to enter - Harris' coach Paul, Weiss partner Karen Dunn would be remiss not to box her in. Instead she could be guided to put her humanity on display with a warm smile and talking points about policies for the most vulnerable.

Of course, all genders are all warned from the get-go not to take life too seriously. After all, none of us gets out alive. However, as is well known in public relations, all humor involves risk. In addition, it can be a cruel weapon. It is ususual to grow up without the trauma of being laughed at by the other kids. As a result many ambitious careerists steer clear of it. It's curious that Harris didn't get that message.

In coaching, I recommend to those starting out in the work world to enjoy the power structure's humor but don't introduce your own. There is the danger of upstaging. 

Twice I quit respected Toastmasters, which trains in public speaking, because I experienced that humor in presentations was being reinforced way too much. Business isn't funny. Neither is the high-stakes realm of politics.

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