Unemployed for Too Long: Hope Can Be a Very Dangerous Thing

This isn't scientific. My caution about hope is based on observations from my intuitive coaching practice. 

Let's cut to the chase during this era of intensifying financial distress. There shouldn't be a situation in which someone who needs income is without it for an extended period. Those who lost their job or never landed one should have done course correction in their search.

The most common and the most effective is to grab work, any kind. That not only brings in income. It restores confidence, provides fresh perspective about what attitudes and skills are marketable and attracts new contacts. 

What often prevents that survival move is, you got it, hope. After being unemployed for too long, for example, those now drifting into despair come to me for a complimentary consultation. What tumbles out is that they had embraced the hope that they could replicate the past. Yes, land the kind of job, responsibilities and compensation they had.  Or what was their dream job during college or their advanced-degree programs. Yet, the world was changing. And their readiness-for-work, skills and hustle were drying up.

The way off that road to homelessness and worse is the oldest adage in how to get, hold and move on to better work: A job gets you a job. Take whatever it available. Then go on from there.

The same fundamental about the peril of hope applies to romantic relationships. Those involved tend to ignore signs of collapse. Instead, they hope for the return of how things used to be.

Career Paths? So Over. It’s about Earning a Good Living. No matter what.

Complimentary consultation. No Pressure. Street-smart Guidance. Contact Jane Genova janegenova374@gmail.com. 

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