America's Brand of Success: Make Extreme Ambition Not Look Like Extreme Ambition
"Try hard but don't make it look like you're trying hard. Don’t be the 'gunner' aka that try hard who wants everyone's work, works 24/7, and makes life difficult for everyone else. Don't be that person ..." Fishbowl Big Law, June 15, 2023 Smart grinders always knew to not come across as, well, grinders. That was made into an ironic point of view in describing young strivers in terms of ducks. On the surface they seem like they are gliding. But beneath the surface they are peddling so hard. Obviously straining to succeed not only is unattractive in terms of personal branding. It invites everything from scorn (they are wrapped too tight) to sabotage (we will get them and rejoice at their downfall). That’s why the relaxed, confident WASP persona in professional life dominated business in America. Success should appear effortless. That creates the meme that anyone could get there. Ah, America the land of opportunity. Beneath-the-surface extreme hustle...